La Fine
Our whirlwind tour of southern Italy provided insights that might otherwise have been difficult to glean.
We knew that the cars were smaller in Europe. But some of the vehicles we saw, particularly in Rome, were extraordinarily tiny, even to the extent of arousing smiles of disbelief-- and some appeared as if their rear half had been amputated:
The price of gas was just over $5.00 per gallon, but there were lots of Italians out driving. While their choice of vehicle suggested a desire to conserve fuel, their driving habits did not.
I have not spoken much during this series about food. But it suffices to say that there was not a bad meal to be found during our two-week stay. And we did not dine in "fine dining" ristoranti-- but rather, for the most part, in mere pizzerie.
When I visited Italy twenty-five years ago, things went horribly wrong with some regularity. At least several times during our stay, the entire country went on strike; and commercial establishments and tourist attractions could not be accessed. The country was unreliable.
We had very little difficulty this time. Things were, for the most part, timely and reliable--even in the south. The only major disruption we experienced, however, was problematic. There was no running water in our small apartment in Castelvetrano the morning we were to depart.
Our tour guide in Selinunte had told us that deforestation in southwestern Sicily had caused rivers to dry up, and the soil to harden. There was a profusion of wild cactus plants-- a sign of local conditions that I did not expect. And we were told, belatedly, that the vicinity has water problems.
My ear for the Italian language is not nearly sophisticated enough to recognize the different dialects. But when we were in Sicily, our "innkeeper" in Castelvetrano was virtually incomprehensible to me. I noticed the language as spoken by locals start to change somewhat in Calabria.
Our stay in Terranova, for me, was an important moment. A British explorer, Norman Douglas, had written a book called "Old Calabria" which was published in 1915. Even though Terranova is not technically part of the current region of Calabria, Douglas briefly visited and described the town:
"After leaving the forest region it is a downhill walk of nearly three hours to reach Terranova di Pollino, which lies, only 910 metres above sea-level, against the slope of a wide and golden amphitheatre of hills, at whose entrance the river Sarmento has carved itself a prodigious gateway through the rock. A dirty little place; the male inhabitants are nearly all in America; the old women nearly all afflicted with goitre. I was pleased to observe the Calabrian system of the house-doors, which life in civilized places had made me forget. These doors are divided into two portions, not vertically like ours, but horizontally. The upper portion is generally open, in order that the housewife sitting within may have light and air in her room, and an opportunity of gossiping with her neighbours across the street; the lower part is closed, to prevent the pigs in the daytime from entering the house (where they sleep at night). The system testifies to social instincts and a certain sense of refinement.
The sights of Terranova are soon exhausted."
This contemptuous passage resonated with me. My grandfather had left only a couple of years earlier, and my grandmother was to leave within the next several years. My grandfather was the only male from his large family to stay in America, contrary to Douglas' observation. But my grandmother-- who was a lovely, gentle woman-- had a goiter that was easily visible. I found it somewhat of concern that Douglas would use the existence of such a condition as an indication that a place is somehow less worthy. I learned that a local deficiency of dietary iodine led to the phenomenon Douglas observed at that time, which has since been remedied.
But today, Terranova is not even remotely like the picture Douglas paints. Its streets and buildings are clean; and its people appear to be reasonably healthy. Education and the attainment of literacy are readily available. The town-- and most southern Italian towns-- have participated in many of the advances of the 20th century and early 21st century, and are undoubtedly much better off than they were 95 years ago when my grandparents left. In fact, things are so much better that British tourists are now paying significantly to visit there, and to spend their vacations in places like Terranova-- which had been so dismissively treated by another Brit named Douglas.
I learned that migration was commonplace among the young to middle-aged generations of southern Italian families. When I spoke with family members and friendly paesani in Terranova and Calabria, it became clear that some young people remained in their home town. But it seemed that upwards of one-third were migrating to the cities of central and northern Italy to work.
While the nation of Italy is an industrial powerhouse, it still has significant economic weaknesses. About 25% of its young men are unemployed, and I am told this percentage is even higher in the south. Some young men have to work several years, gratis, to establish themselves and gain experience and credentials.
Despite all the unemployment, there is no sense of social dissolution and breakdown. While family sizes in southern Italy have diminished markedly-- I consistently heard of families with two or three children-- there is still a strong sense of familial obligation. The basic unit of society-- the family-- is largely intact in spite of some trying economic circumstances, and the overall community benefits.
Walking through some of the cities and towns during the passegiatta was an experience. During these evening hours, the towns spring to life, and the streets bustle with activity. But in some places-- where the middle-aged men "hang out", instead of walking-- it can be a bit intimidating, as they glare suspiciously at newcomers and strangers. This is easily overcome, however. Just interrupt them humbly asking for directions in their native tongue, and they instantaneously melt into the most helpful people one can imagine.
Being "Italian"and making this trip conferred certain theoretical advantages. I was told, for instance, in Naples that my appearance made it less likely that we would be targeted after-hours by unsavory locals. But at the same time, we would notice small children out playing on the streets and in the piazze without adult supervision and accompaniment. Apparently their parents were unconcerned about the allegedly unsafe atmosphere.
I could tell that some of the locals saw my physical appearance and recognized my background. And one of the most satisfying aspects of the trip, for me, was the way the locals honored me nearly as one of their own. The hotel personnel, the tour guides, the drivers-- even some people we met at various attractions and on the streets-- took special note of my surname. They all claimed they knew of local Guarini to whom I might theoretically be related. And they were interested to know where my roots were.
If my family came from the same region, there was a certain kinship. If my family came from the same town or city, well, that was huge.
And when they spoke my surname, it was pronounced correctly every single time. That hardly ever happened even in New York, and it never happens in the southern US.
There was a certain sense of belonging-- as if acceptance was automatic, even though my family had been gone for a century. There was almost a subconscious sense of belonging there, among my people, even though my life was elsewhere.
Viewing these people, through the prism of their remarkable history, is more readily accomplished over there.
This concludes my series. I hope at least some have enjoyed it.
Special thanks to my son David, age 15, who eagerly snapped nearly 700 photographs during our two-week stay, and whose work product enhanced this series greatly.
I will return to political blogging, from which I have taken a vacation for over two months, forthwith.































































































































