Now that fall has arrived, it is appropriate for me to share what I did during my summer vacation.
I took a "break' from my usual blogging during late July and the entire month of August. One of the reasons was because of preparations for a family reunion.
Two years ago, I shared here how I had visited the town in Italy where my maternal grandmother, Ernoldina Molinari, was born-- Amantea, in the southern region of Calabria. She was brought to the United States by her parents at the ripe old age of two months, during the year 1900.
During my trip to Amantea two years ago, I was introduced to a local gentleman, Rocco Molinaro, who probably is a relative. His family had received a letter ten years earlier from someone in the nation of Brazil by the name of Mario Celso Molinaro. He showed it to me, and gave me a copy because it was clear to me from the letter that this Brazilian Molinaro was most certainly my cousin.
My great-grandfather Gaetano was one of ten siblings who left Amantea. Four of them emigrated to Brazil; and the initial plan was for the other six to join them there. However, there was an epidemic of Yellow Fever in Brazil; and so my great-grandfather and his five siblings came to the United States instead. Since then, a large Molinari clan developed in both Brazil and the United States, with literally hundreds of descendants.
But no one in the Molinari clan in the United States was ever to meet face-to-face with anyone from the clan in Brazil. The two branches of the family were geographically split apart, permanently, on two separate continents.
But when I returned from Italy, I decided to write to Mario in Brazil. We exchanged letters several times. The Brazilian branch of the family had become very successful, with many entrepreneurs, physicians, public officials and other professionals. Mario himself had been a history professor, music conductor and concert pianist.
The American Molinari family decided to plan a family reunion this year, and it was held at the end of August. We decided to invite Mario and his wife; and to our delight, they came all the way from Brazil and even performed at the reunion. It was the first time in 110 years, ever since the immigrant siblings parted their ways, that the Brazilian branch of the Molinari family had been reunited physically with the American branch of the family. So it was a pretty big deal for all of us.
The reunion was held on Staten Island, and about 150-160 people attended. It was a lot of fun. I had the opportunity to relate to the group how I had accidentally reconnected with our Brazilian relatives.
During the weeks leading up to the reunion, I had been unsure as to what the language barrier would be with Mario, so I spent my evenings working with CD's, upgrading my Spanish skills in anticipation of his visit (because I hoped that his Brazilian Portuguese would be fairly similar to Spanish).
We have a couple of former elected officials in the American Molinari family with some degree of celebrity, and so the reunion was covered by the local newspaper, the Staten Island Advance, as well as by a weekly New Jersey Italian-American publication called the Italian Tribune. I am going to reproduce those accounts here.
First, the article in the Italian Tribune appeared two weeks ago, and was written by Andrew Paul Mele:
Molinari Family Reunion
Italian Style
The Molinari name is synonymous with Staten Island politics. S. Robert Molinari was a member of the New York State Assembly from 1943 to 1944. His granddaughter Susan Molinari retired from Congress in 1997. But it was his son, Guy V. Molinari, who carried the name to the greatest political heights. He served four terms as a United States Representative and was borough president of Staten Island from 1990 to 2001.
On Saturday, August 29 at the Mount Loretto CYO Center in Pleasant Plains, Staten Island, New York, Guy Molinari joined with more than 160 relatives for a joyous family reunion. Six generations were represented and they came from such distant places as California, Alaska and Brazil. As remarkable as the event was, the story behind the gathering is even more so and it began more than 100 years ago in Amantea in the Calabria region of Italy.
In the 1890's, 10 siblings of the Molinaro family were determined to emigrate to the Americas with Brazil as their destination. Four arrived in the South American country, but an epidemic prevented the remaining Molinaros from landing, so they redirected themselves to New York. Robert, Guy's father, was two years old when his family landed in the United States. Over the years and distance, contact between the two groups was lost and until recently, the succeeding generations were unaware that the others existed.
Mario Celso Molinaro is a concert pianist in his home in Amparo, Brazil. He attended the reunion with his wife, Maria Bruschini, an opera singer. Fran Guarino is a Molinari, a first cousin to Guy, who attended the reunion with her three sons, Joe, Steve and Gary. It was Joe Guarino, a physician who resides in Greensboro, North Carolina with his wife and two sons, who reestablished the family connection more than 100 years after the emigration.
Mario had written a letter to relatives in Amantea in 1997. In 2007, Joe traveled to Amantea to visit those relatives in Italy and was shown the letter from Mario. Mario is amazed that his letter was discovered by Joe. "It was 10 years after I wrote it," he said incredulously. Joe made the Brazilian contact and the Molinari clan was instantly reunited.
There was no shortage of entertainment as Mario and Maria performed. Guy's brother Bobby Molinari played the accordion and a nephew, Donald Sica, performed with his band, "New York Time".
Susan Molinari and her husband, former member of Congress Bill Paxon, came from Alexandria, Virginia where they now reside with their two daughters, Kate, 10 and Susan, 13.
Guy Victor Molinari was born in Manhattan in 1928 and came to Staten Island in time to graduate from New Dorp High School in 1945. He earned a Bachelor of Arts Degree from Wagner College on Staten Island and a law degree from New York Law School in 1951. Guy served in the Marine Corps during the Korean War and was admitted to the New York State Bar following his discharge in 1953.
A Republican, he served in the State Assembly from 1975 until 1980, when he was elected to the House of Representatives from the 17th Congressional District. He resigned in 1989 to become Borough President of Staten Island, the fifth of six Italian Americans to serve in that post. An influential member of the Republican Party, Guy, a pro-life advocate, was a force behind the mayoral candidacy of Rudolph Giuliani.
Still the congenial, smiling man with a kindness in his face that exudes trust, he entered the hall on Saturday and began to meet and greet the generations that came. There was happiness and love, and with all of his accomplishments over a lifetime..., Guy Molinari looked over the room and said, "This is the top of the list. Nothing could be better!"
The account from the Staten Island Advance, written by Tevah Platt, is as follows:
150 Molinaris, including former BP, gather for reunion
It may be in the blood: On Staten Island, the Molinari surname is synonymous with politics.
The legacy that began with S. Robert "Fighting Bob" Molinari, a New York State Assemblyman in the 1940s, extended to his son, former borough president Guy Molinari, and on to Guy's daughter, Susan, who retired from Congress in 1997.
But the name that carries clout in New York circles is attached to a far-reaching clan united not by GOP ideology but by love, Italian ancestry and festive music.
Some 150 Molinaris attended a family reunion at the Mount Loretto CYO Center in Pleasant Plains yesterday -- enough heads to comprise the entire New York State Assembly.
But they were a motley bunch, in town from as far as Alaska and Brazil, and spanning five generations, from 83-year-old Henry Molinari of New Rochelle to 7-month-old twins Christopher and Ryan Pospisil of Eltingville.
The eldest generation gathered around Guy's brother, Bob Molinari, on the accordion, to sing racy ditties their late uncle Joe had penned and that they'd laughed over during summers spent in bungalows on Midland Beach.
Fifth-generation Molinaris shared photographs from their days growing up in New Dorp while sixth-generation cousins met one another for the first time:
"I've never grown up with a lot of family," said Ellie Sica, 20, who flew in from Juneau, Alaska, for the reunion. "It's really nice to be here with a lot of family and just connect instantaneously. There's so much love, within seconds I felt like a part of the family."
The Molinari clan traces its ancestry back to Giuseppe and Rafaela Molinari of Amantea, a town in Calabria, Italy. That couple had 11 children, all but one of whom immigrated to the United States or to Brazil. They multiplied.
BUSINESS PEOPLE
Third-generation Molinaris settled in New York and established businesses, including a Manhattan and Queens barber shop, Molra's restaurant in Manhattan, and Molinari's nightclub in Midland Beach.
Musical talent runs deep in the Molinari family, at least as far back as Ralph and Joe "Booby" Molinari, who played comedy acts on guitar and kazoo at their nightclub in the 1950s.
Guy's father, Robert, played the ukulele, and Guy and his brother played accordions in a performance at the 1939 World's Fair.
Maria and Mario Molinaro (relatives, despite the alternative surname spelling), an opera singer and a pianist, respectively, traveled to the reunion from Amparo, Brazil.
Nieces and nephews of the late "Uncle Booby" sang his "In a Boat in Central Park" at the reunion, along with "Volare" and other standards, while Donald Sica, Guy's nephew, performed with his band, "New York Time."
EARLIER SUMMERS
Guy Molinari remembered parades and performances at Midland Beach: "The whole summer was just one great big ball," he said yesterday.
The reunion events included fossil-hunting for the kids offered by local geologist James Brochu, and a proclamation from Borough President James P. Molinaro declaring "Molinari Day."
While about 50 Molinaris still reside on Staten Island, this was the first event in recent memory to bring together as many as five branches of the family.
"We're closely knit," said octogenarian Henry Molinari. "I knew it was going to take a half hour to move 20 feet, because I kissed everyone I saw."
The family name gave a sense of pride to relatives who grew up on Staten Island, several fifth-generation Molinaris said.
Susan Molinari, who now resides in Alexandria, Va., said yesterday that growing up in a political family exposed her, as it has to her children, to public service and its effectiveness in a democracy.
"It's been great," she said, "to be a part of this crazy, beautiful, smart, emotional family."
Above is a Staten Island Advance photo of Guy, Susan and her two daughters, which was taken outside the facility where the reunion was held.
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